by Breakwater | May 6, 2014 | Uncategorized
As marriage coaches, we are asked one question more than any others: “How can we learn to communicate with each other?” Our response is there are three components to communication: Talking, Listening, and Responding. The most important component is Listening. John...
by Breakwater | Feb 2, 2014 | Uncategorized
Thursday, January 30, 2014 was a very sad day for me, as my lifetime mentor and friend left us for her eternal rest with the Lord. While she was not a public figure, Gloria Guzzardo touched hundreds of people’s lives with her testimony and service to others. I was...
by Breakwater | Aug 14, 2013 | Uncategorized
For years I’ve heard laypeople and experts alike use the idea that people bring “baggage into a relationship.” Then the mentor, counselor, or therapist would have you identify the “baggage.” Well, I have concluded that baggage...
by Breakwater | Jul 27, 2013 | Uncategorized
Mark 5 tells us about a man who was tortured by evil spirits, and the process that occurred when Jesus healed him. As we study this story, we see how, in our suffering, we fail to recognize what needs to take place to find healing, whether personally or in our...
by Breakwater | May 23, 2013 | Uncategorized
As a relationship coach, I often hear the question: “Why is this happening to ME? Many times a person wonders why their spouse left, why their child has an illness, or why they were violated as a child. They often feel like they did something wrong, or even still,...
