by Breakwater | Aug 4, 2016 | Uncategorized
As marriage coaches, we deal with this topic on a daily basis. It’s an important part of good communication skills to discern the difference, and understand the impact each has on our audience …… particularly our spouse. When we share the facts...
by Breakwater | Jul 17, 2016 | Uncategorized
Think about the following factors that contribute to discouragement: Fatigue. Many couples today are going in several directions simultaneously as they juggle careers, family, continuing education, debt, etc. Ask yourself if it’s time to H.A.L.T. (hungry, angry,...
by Breakwater | Jun 2, 2016 | Couples, Love, Marriage Coaching, Relationships, Uncategorized
Every marriage goes through a “dry spell.” Very often one partner will be saying one of the following: “I’m not sure you love me anymore.” “I think the kids mean more to you than I do.” “Did we ever have anything in common?” “Maybe we should just go our...
by Breakwater | Oct 23, 2015 | Uncategorized
Secrets. Shame. Shaky relationship. She’s having an emotional affair over social media. He’s hiding a porn addiction. She’s spending too much time sharing their intimate secrets with her bff. He’s drinking after work with his buddies instead of...
by Breakwater | Dec 31, 2014 | Uncategorized
Lots of people make resolutions. What if you decided that you would make a resolution for your marriage? I can say with great confidence that if you will implement any one of these suggestions, 2015 will bring you two closer together. Here are some considerations: 1....
by Breakwater | Dec 15, 2014 | Uncategorized
We have had eleven calls from spouses in the last week, asking for help for their marriage. In fact, December has always been our busiest month of the year. WHY? Where is the JOY in Christmas? 1. There are unrealistic expectations. Marriages are falling apart; one is...
